Ok I like how you have explained this but now lets expand upon this simple order and look at how the enemy finds loopholes to make our lives as men miserable.
Here's an example:
A young man 36 years of age is a third generation farmer in North America. He has a 10 year old son. The boys Mother has been put away and the relationship was common law and outside of marriage. She is a drug addict and whore who now has children from another man so there is no hope of reconcilliation because that would be an abomination for the man to go back into a dirty woman. The man has had the boy since he was 2 years of age. The man has to work so the only option was for him to have the bay stay with his parents and have them raise him. The man also has to work away from home because the farm will not provide enough income to provide for his family. Meanwhile his father has past on 6 years ago so he is also left to work the land. The mother receaves a big pile of money and she has control of 25% of the land that contains the house and yardsight. The other 75% of land is owned by the man which he had to work for and buy back from the banks because his father was an alchoholic and mismanaged the land. The mother is in her late 50's.
This drove the man to drinking and drug abuse and almost lost everything. There was the pressure of having to provide and run a buisiness away from home plus work the farm. On top of this He did not know Christ and was always having to strive with his mother because she would not allow him to run things and farm the land without her interferance and constant nagging. Instead of being a quiet keeper of the home, the money changed her and when she got control of part of the land she constantly used this control mechanism to threaten her son and get her way with kicking him out of the home and keeping the little boy when she wanted her way.
Then the Lord looked down and had mercy on the young man and saw all that was against him. The Lord came to him and let the young man know that He was real and that He cared. The young man accepted the Lord and began to grow in Truth and Grace. As the light grew in him he learned more about Yahweh and how things were supposed to be and how because of all the rebellion of women in the world and church, it had shaped the hell he was living in and how the things the women were doing were opposite of what Yahweh had commanded them. This especially bothered him as he went from church to church and found the same problems with women in each church.
Now just because his eyes have been opened he is still living in hell because of his wicked mother. She claims to be a christian but continues to fight against him in the spirit because she wants control and is very stubborn. She does not read the bible but likes to argue and she is backed up by other women of the local church communities and they believe the young man has to be obedient to her and them and they want to rule over all the young men even to the point of pretending to be obedient to their husbands but only to manipulate and get their way.
So what is the solution? The young man cannot be a constant care giver for his son, because he has to work, and the boy is very attached to his grandmother. Yet the grandmother is not honoring Yahweh and biblically she should now submit to her son as he is the eldest and the land remaining that she has upsurped control of is his rightful innheritance. She also has a boyfreind who has moved in and they both do not like the young man there, because he is born again and they are fornicators, but he has to be able to spend time with his son. The little boy has now developed a dislike for his dad because he can feel the tension between him and his grandmother. The grandmother lets the little boy do whatever he wants but the father is a bit stricter and does most of the diciplining.
This is a typical example of Yahweh verses the world. When given a choice the women always choose the ways of the world and satan because they don't want to submit and are taught that they are equal and control is something to strive for. In this case the young man has to continue to stand and beleive in Faith that Yahweh will not renege on his promises especially not causing the rightious to be moved. As he looks around at the area he sees how Yahweh has not stood up for his people and wonders how many more Naboth's will have to die before Yahweh wakes up and pays attention. He sees that many small farm families who stood on Gods Word have been forced out of their homes and off the land by big farmers and bankers. But he remembers the scripture that a house divided will not stand and it all comes back to the women not standing in her position of protection in the family unit and standing behind the men to support them.
So what does Yahweh do? Does He violate the free will of the grandmother as He did to Jonah? and cause her to change and submit? She continues to try to exercise control using the verse that children are to obey their parents, even though the young man is not a child and she is not living a biblical life in other regards. Or does He ignore all the promises made to the young man through His word and let the demons coming through the grandmother and the church continue to torment and keep him bound in this situation. We know from the life of Yeshua that His mother became submissive to Him even though she tried to get her way and manipulate because of her relationship to Him. The responsibilty is now in Yahwehs hands and He must make this right. The young man is standing in faith and cannot move. The sad part is that the longer Yahweh takes the worse it is for the little boy. All because of the rebellion of 1 woman.

Thank You Deborah and Avah for your council and words. To Lev I would say that your statements leave a person feeling worse than when they first started. It is biblical to seek out councel and to present a situation not complaining just laying it out so others see the veiw.